Advocacy isn’t something I stumbled upon later in life—it was ingrained in me at the age of ten when my world was forever altered by trauma. As I wrote in my book, The Wall Between Two Lives, I made a choice at a young age that would shape my path: I attended the trial that would determine my assaulter’s fate. In that moment, I understood the power of voice, resilience, and standing up—not just for myself but for others who couldn’t.
That experience ignited a fire in me, leading me to pursue a degree in psychology. I had high hopes of becoming a child psychologist, determined to help other children navigate the pain and uncertainty that I once faced. I wanted to be the person I needed when I was younger—a guide, an advocate, and a source of strength.
But life had other plans.
My journey took me into the military, where my advocacy evolved. As a leader, I carried the weight of responsibility—not just for the mission, but for the well-being of those I served alongside. Later, as a military spouse, mother, and now grandmother, my commitment to advocating for others only deepened. I learned that advocacy isn’t confined to a title or profession; it is woven into the fabric of who we are, shaping the way we show up for others every single day.
Although I don’t share every aspect of my journey on social media, my advocacy has never stopped. It has simply taken different forms—mentorship, leadership, storytelling, and creating spaces for others to feel seen, heard, and valued. Whether through my work with Veteran Lifestyle Magazine, my mental health advocacy, or my personal conversations with those who need support, the mission remains the same: to uplift, empower, and create change.
As I continue forward, I do so with a deep sense of purpose—not just for myself, but for my children and grandchildren. Legacy isn’t just about what we leave behind; it’s about the lives we touch along the way. My advocacy will never cease, because the need for healing, understanding, and support will always exist. And as long as I have a voice, I will continue to use it.
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